In
the first part, we read about Jalandhar challenging Lord Indra and subsequently
winning Lord Vishnu on his side. In the second part we read about Jalandhar
trying to seduce Parvati, and she recognising him through his disguise. Upset
about the deception, she approached Lord Vishnu to teach Jalandhar a lesson.
On the request of Parvati, Vishnu decided to teach Jalandhar a
lesson, by paying him in the same coin.
With his powers, Vishnu assumed the form of Jalandhar and went to
meet Vrinda. It is said that Jalandhar got much of his powers from her
chastity which had made him near invincible (besides the blessings of Lord
Brahma). But unlike Parvati, Vrinda could not realise that this was not her
husband. For a brief moment, this chastity was broken and when Vrinda realised
that she was cheated, she cursed Vishnu to become a stone, as it was a
stone-hearted person who could think of such an act. After cursing, she jumped
into the fire and ended her life.
Shaligram shila |
When Jalandhar came to know about the death of Vrinda, he felt both
angry and sad. He realised that this was part of his doing. In the meanwhile,
Shiva and his army realised the illusory effect created by Jalandhar. The
battle ensued with an even greater vigour. Jalandhar was bent on avenging his
wives death and Shiva was determined to end what was destined, but his creation
nonetheless.
Without the protection of his wives chastity cover, Jalandhar started
losing. After a heavy battle, Shiva killed Jalandhar. However, it is said, that
after his death, the soul of Jalandhar united with Lord Shiva.
Some other versions say, that after the death of Jalandhar, the gods
came to know that Vishnu was suffering from guilt of leading to the death of a
chaste woman. In his depression, he smeared the ashes from the place where
Vrinda burnt herself and moved around aimlessly. The gods approached Lord
Shiva, who directed them to Parvati, as it was on her request, that Vishnu did
whatever he did. Parvati, then
gave a few seeds and asked them to sprinkle them
at the place where Vrinda’s ashes lay. From there came up three plants, Tulasi,
Amla and Malati (Chinese Honeysuckle). Later, Tulasi and Malati, found place in Vishnu’s Vaikuntha.
Malati flowers |
The above myth is written due to clarifications sought by
some of my regular readers, who had some misconceptions about Jalandhar due to
some representations they had come across. Such myths assume importance as they
carry with them, many smaller myths, which gain individual importance. In this
case, the personality of Jalandhar, the chastity of Vrinda, the presence of
kirti-mukha as part of the temple architecture, the birth of medicinal plants
like Tulasi and the presence of shaligram-shila in the riverbed, etc.
Just to reiterate –
- Jalandhar was not a demon. He simply led the demons against the gods.
- Jalandhar was a brave and courageous man, who was blessed by Lord Brahma, who impressed Lord Vishnu in battle and ended up being one with Lord Shiva. This makes him an impressive mythological character.
- Besides the fact that he was a brave man, he also derived his strength from his wives chastity which speaks volumes of his personality and his conjugal life.
- He was not a twin or a lookalike of Lord Shiva. He assumed Shiva’s looks only once and that too to seduce Parvati. However, Shiva’s radiance was not a demon out to seduce Parvati, it was a ploy of Shiva with the help of Narada, to lead to Jalandhar’s elimination.
- Also, he was not the child of Shiva, he was just an ‘aspect’ of him, which came out of Shiva’s angry looks which needed a destination. Some also say that he was truly the child of Sea and Ganga as he was found at the confluence of the two and brought up by the Sea.
In another version of this myth... when Vrinda realized she has been tricked by Visnu she burned herself as she could not return to her husband. Later from her ashes rose tusli- the holy Basel. Ashamed of his action, Visnu then promised Tulsi to wait outside his home and he would marry her once a year. symbolically Tulsi is a pure woman/plant who has been defiled by a man .There for she has no place in one's home but has to stand out side home... remember the movie Mein Tulsi tere aangan ki... Thus by marrying her, Visnu tried to remove the blot on her character. Every year people perform Tulsi vivah in memory of Vrinda.( Tulsi-vrindavan)
ReplyDeleteWhat one observes is
1) If raped /defiled by man one can marry the woman and thereby 'salvage' her honour.
This practice is followed in India /south east asia even today.
There are instances where courts have ordered the rapist to marry the raped woman. There by absolving him of rigorous punishment.
2) although no fault of hers Vrinda had to kill herself to preserve the myth of chaste woman as the ultimate power of her husband.
question is - is this myth evolved from a existing practice of crime against women which was prevalent at that time?
or was it used to pardon a heinous crime like rape by just asking the rapist/man to marry the victim and let him go scot-free
point is myths have a deep influence on the social practices and also are reflections of social beliefs.
Such myths do reflect misogynistic tendencies of patriarchal ideology in Indian systems and need to be erased from the public memory if we need to empower women in India in true sense.
best,
vidya