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The latest
murder of Sheena Bora has raised quite a furore in the minds of people, not
because of the probable gruesome death of the victim, but more so because the
murder was none other than her mother. Mothers in India and similar cultures
have a much esteemed position and at times dramatically divine, as mothers are
akin to creators, the beings that give birth to the child. This elevated the
status of a mother, in a cultural sense, and thus the place of significance. It
is this very elevation, which leads to shock and surprise, when we learn of
such murders, which raise questions, as to how can a mother kill her
child/children? How can the hands that rocked the cradle, end up throttling the
life of her child? Melodrama apart, this definitely raises a very pertinent
question on the current state of relationships and the complexities involved in
some cases, like the present case of Sheena Bora.
Without
going into the murky aspects, and the ever-growing web of complex-relationships
of the dramatis personae of the case, I am personally quite intrigued by the
motif of killing ones children. While this is a disturbing aspect from a social
perspective, it is this that has caught my attention, leading me to see, if
this is a modern phenomenon and if I could blame it on the modern degradation
of familial structures, moral values and a growing lack of sensitivity, or did
such crimes exist from time immemorial.
My hunting
ground (pardon the ironical usage!) is mythology. Theorists and academicians
will say that myths give messages of social or accepted behaviour or norms.
Simplistically put, they lay down social and cultural norms. While at it,
certain characteristics are reinforced metaphorically and extremes are
highlighted to shock and thus bring out the enormity of the sin, which ends up
being forbidden or unthinkable. Filicide or killing of one’s children is one of
them.
Mythology
abounds in examples of filicide, but it is important here to distinguish
between sacrifices (often by the orders of gods) and murders (with or without a
purpose).
In the
case of the first one, parents, often fathers, are asked to offer their sons as
an offering to gods leading to the ‘sacrifice’ of their sons. The case of Abraham
and Isaac is the best example of this. This is primarily to test the devotion
of the father to gods and in majority of the cases, the life of the son is
awarded back or the pleased god appears just before the child is about to be
sacrificed. Such cases are many and we will not call them acts of filicide
here. We will also ignore cases of sacrificing ones children for a specific
purpose without the gods asking for them, as they remain examples of sacrifices, like Jephthah sacrificing
his daughter to Yahweh, from the Old Testament.
We will
only focus on cases where children were killed by their parents, often for no
fault of theirs and without the divine order.
A number
of such myths exist in the Greek Mythology, chief among them being Medea,
Procne and Tantalus. Procne and her husband Tereus lived happily with their
five year old son Itys. Once Procne
decided to invite her beautiful sister
Philomela to live with them, and Tereus volunteered to bring her. On the way,
Tereus falls in love with Philomela and ends up marrying her in an island under
the pretext that her sister had died. When the truth was revealed to Philomela,
she threatened to expose him. Fearing the inevitable, Tereus cuts her tongue
and leaves her in an island and goes back to Procne, telling her that Philomela
had died on the way. Soon with the turn of events, Procne learns the truth and
in an act of retribution kills her son, saying that in him she could see his
father. She then cuts pieces of her son and prepares supper from it and offers
it to Tereus. Only after he consumes it, does she reveal the truth and escapes
a raging father at her heels.
Philomela and Procne |
Tantalus
is another similar example, except that he had no reason, whatsoever. Tantalus
was a mortal son of Zeus but unlike other mortals, was a favourite with both
the gods and Zeus. He was probably the only mortal, who was allowed to dine
with the gods, especially the dinner-for-gods-only kind!
The feast of Tantalus. 1767. Hugues Taraval. French |
Once to prove the gullibility and the foolishness of
the gods, he invited them for dinner to his castle. He then cut his son Pelops
to pieces and made a stew out of it and served to the gods. None of the gods
had quite had the stew except for Demeter, who unmindfully chewed into what
turned out to be the shoulder of Pelops. When she realised what had happened
she alerted all the gods, who were now furious. Zeus punished him and sent him
to the lowest region of the Underworld. (For more on this read The Crime and Punishment of Tantalus).
Finally,
the murder considered to be most gruesome was by Medea. Medea had fallen in
love with Jason (of the Argonauts fame) and helped him get the Golden Fleece
much against the desire of her father. Later when they were escaping from a
chasing father, she is supposed to have killed her brother, cut
him into pieces
and scattered the parts all over, so that the distraught father got busy
collecting the pieces for a respectable funeral for her son while Jason and
Medea managed to escape. Yet further in the story, Jason falls in love with the
princess of another city where they were seeking asylum and ends up marrying
her. As an act of retribution for being ditched, Medea killed the princess and
her own two sons, whom Jason loved deeply, leaving Jason all alone. (For more
on this read Medea the Barbarian and Medea the Barbarian – Concluding Part ).
Medea (about to murder her children) by Eugène Ferdinand Victor Delacroix (1862) |
In all the
three cases, the murder of the children, were not sacrifices; they were either
an act of vanity or retribution, where the child was not at fault. All of them
go down as gruesome acts of filicide and while literature has glorified Medea,
the act of killing her children has always been condoned. There are many more
such cases, like Cronos ‘eating’ all his sons, except Zeus, who later ends up killing
his father. Besides these well known cases, there are other cases where
fathers/mothers have killed their children by mistake, or in a fit of madness,
often brought about by divine intervention, but we will not discuss them.
The Celtic
myths too have some interesting references to filicide in the myth of Cath Maige Tuired, in which a man kills his son over the difference of opinion of
medical method of curing the king who had lost his hand. The father was of the
opinion that the king should have an artificial silver hand, while the son
wanted to regenerate a hand magically from a tissue. The father was supposed to
be so enraged with the superior medical skills of his son, that he struck him
with a sword and killed him.
The Prose Edda of the Norse
mythology also relates to many such cases of filicide and one of them is
similar to that of Procne of the Greek mythology. In this Gudrun, avenges the
death of her brothers by her husband by offering the hearts of their sons to
the husband! The objective is to cause pain to her husband, leading to an
heirless throne, an act which never went down well in the cultural milieu in
which the story takes place. In yet another version of the same story, the
murder is gruesome. Gudrun is
supposed to have killed her sons, made goblets
out of their skulls and fed their blood and hearts to her husband. Drinking
from the skulls of enemy was a widely practised cultural act and thus went
unnoticed by the husband, who is later killed by Gudrun and one of his nephews.
It is important to mention
that the murder above and that by Procne earlier in Greek mythology, is seen
more as an act of retribution, than filicide. The central theme is more to
avenge an earlier act, than the murder of one’s own children. While this might
seem an effort to overlook the crime, but the treatment of the acts is less
important in the said narratives than what led to the crime. Besides the
mothers who have avenged certain acts by killing their children, had to battle
emotions before they committed the acts. Their love for their children was not
less, though the need to seek revenge was greater, and in the case of Medea it
was more out of being spurned or rejected by the one for whom, she had
committed the crime of fratricide (killing ones brother) and more.
To be continued……………
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